rich merchant

There was a rich merchant who had 4 wives. He loved the 4th wife the most and adorned her with rich robes and treated her to delicacies. He took great care of her and gave her nothing but the best.
He also loved the 3rd wife very much. He's very proud of her and always wanted to show off her to his friends. However, the merchant is always in great fear that she might run away with some other men.
He too, loved his 2nd wife. She is a very considerate person, always patient and in fact is the merchant's confidante. Whenever the merchant faced some problems, he always turned to his 2nd wife and she would always help him out and tide him through difficult times.
Now, the merchant's 1st wife is a very loyal partner and has made great contributions in maintaining his wealth and business as well as taking care of the household. However, the merchant did not love the first wife and although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her.
One day, the merchant fell ill. Before long, he knew that he was going to die soon. He thought of his luxurious life and told himself, "Now I have 4 wives with me. But when I die, I'll be alone. How lonely I'll be!"
Thus, he asked the 4th wife, "I loved you most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No way!" replied the 4th wife and she walked away without another word.
The answer cut like a sharp knife right into the merchant's heart. The sad merchant then asked the 3rd wife, "I have loved you so much for all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No!" replied the 3rd wife. "Life is so good over here! I'm going to remarry when you die!" The merchant's heart sank and turned cold.
He then asked the 2nd wife, "I always turned to you for help and you've always helped me out. Now I need your help again. When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?" "I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!" replied the 2nd wife. "At the very most, I can only send you to your grave." The answer came like a bolt of thunder and the merchant was devastated.
Then a voice called out : "I'll leave with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go." The merchant looked up and there was his first wife. She was so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition. Greatly grieved, the merchant said, "I should have taken much better care of you while I could have !"
Actually, we all have 4 wives in our lives
a. The 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort we lavish in making it look good, it'll leave us when we die.
b. Our 3rd wife ? Our possessions, status and wealth. When we die, they all go to others.
c. The 2nd wife is our family and friends. No matter how close they had been there for us when we're alive, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.
d. The 1st wife is in fact our soul, often neglected in our pursuit of material, wealth and sensual pleasure.
Guess what? It is actually the only thing that follows us wherever we go. Perhaps it's a good idea to cultivate and strengthen it now rather than to wait until we're on our deathbed to lament

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20:50There was a rich merchant who had 4 wives. He loved the 4th wife the most and adorned her with rich robes and treated her to delicacies. He took great care of her and gave her nothing but the best.
He also loved the 3rd wife very much. He's very proud of her and always wanted to show off her to his friends. However, the merchant is always in great fear that she might run away with some other men.
He too, loved his 2nd wife. She is a very considerate person, always patient and in fact is the merchant's confidante. Whenever the merchant faced some problems, he always turned to his 2nd wife and she would always help him out and tide him through difficult times.
Now, the merchant's 1st wife is a very loyal partner and has made great contributions in maintaining his wealth and business as well as taking care of the household. However, the merchant did not love the first wife and although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her.
One day, the merchant fell ill. Before long, he knew that he was going to die soon. He thought of his luxurious life and told himself, "Now I have 4 wives with me. But when I die, I'll be alone. How lonely I'll be!"
Thus, he asked the 4th wife, "I loved you most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No way!" replied the 4th wife and she walked away without another word.
The answer cut like a sharp knife right into the merchant's heart. The sad merchant then asked the 3rd wife, "I have loved you so much for all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No!" replied the 3rd wife. "Life is so good over here! I'm going to remarry when you die!" The merchant's heart sank and turned cold.
He then asked the 2nd wife, "I always turned to you for help and you've always helped me out. Now I need your help again. When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?" "I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!" replied the 2nd wife. "At the very most, I can only send you to your grave." The answer came like a bolt of thunder and the merchant was devastated.
Then a voice called out : "I'll leave with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go." The merchant looked up and there was his first wife. She was so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition. Greatly grieved, the merchant said, "I should have taken much better care of you while I could have !"
Actually, we all have 4 wives in our lives
a. The 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort we lavish in making it look good, it'll leave us when we die.
b. Our 3rd wife ? Our possessions, status and wealth. When we die, they وكان 20:50There تاجر غنية الذين قد 4 زوجات. أنه يحب الزوجة الرابعة أكثر وتزين لها مع الجلباب الغنية ومعاملة لها شهية. أحاط كبيرة من الرعاية لها، وقدم لها أي شيء لكن الأفضل.
كما كان يحب الزوجة الثالثة جداً. وهو فخور جداً لها ودائما يريد أن يظهر قبالة لها إلى أصدقائه. ومع ذلك، التاجر دائماً في خوف عظيم وقالت أنها قد يهرب مع بعض رجال آخرين.
جداً، كان يحب زوجته الثانية. هو شخص تراعي جداً، دائماً صبورة، وفي الحقيقة هو مؤتمن التاجر. كلما التاجر تواجه بعض المشاكل، تطرق دائماً إلى زوجته الثانية وأنها دائماً مساعدته على والمد له من خلال الأوقات الصعبة.
الآن، الزوجة الأولى التاجر شريكا جداً ولاء وقدمت مساهمات كبيرة في الحفاظ على ثروة بلده والأعمال التجارية، فضلا عن العناية بالأسرة. ومع ذلك، التاجر لا تحب الزوجة الأولى ورغم أنها أحبه عميق، أنه يكاد يعتبر الإشعار لها.
يوم واحد، مرضت التاجر. قبل مضى وقت طويل، وكان يعلم أنه كان يريد الموت في أقرب وقت. أنه يعتقد أن حياته الفاخرة وقال نفسه، "الآن لدى 4 زوجات معي. ولكن عندما أموت، سوف تكون وحدها. كيف وحيدا سأكون! "
ومن ثم، سأل زوجته الرابعة، "أحب لك أكثر، وهبت لك الملابس خيرة وتمطر عناية كبيرة على مدى يمكنك. الآن أنا الموت، سوف يمكنك اتباع لي ويبقى لي شركة؟ " أجاب "لا!" الزوجة الرابعة، وقالت أنها انسحبت دون كلمة أخرى.
الجواب قطع مثل حق سكين حادة في قلب التاجر. ثم سأل التاجر حزينة الزوجة الثالثة، "لقد أحببت لك الكثير لجميع حياتي. الآن أنا الموت، سوف يمكنك اتباع لي ويبقى لي شركة؟ " "لا!" أجابت الزوجة الثالثة. "الحياة جيدة جداً هنا! وأنا ذاهب إلى الزواج مرة أخرى عندما تموت! " قلب التاجر غرقت وتشغيل الباردة.
ثم طلب من زوجته الثانية، "التفت دائماً لكم للحصول على تعليمات ولقد ساعدتني دائماً. الآن أنا بحاجة إلى مساعدة الخاص بك مرة أخرى. عندما أموت، سوف يمكنك اتباع لي ويبقى لي شركة؟ " وأجابت الزوجة الثانية "أنا آسف، لا يمكن أن تساعدك بها هذه المرة!". "في معظم جداً، يمكن فقط أبعث لك إلى القبر الخاص بك." وجاء الجواب مثل الترباس الرعد والتاجر دمر.
ثم دعا صوت: "سوف اترك معكم. سوف أتابع لك بغض النظر عن المكان الذي تذهب. " التاجر بدأ وكان هناك مع زوجته الأولى. وقالت أنها حتى جلداني، تقريبا مثل وقالت أنها تعاني من سوء التغذية. قال التاجر إلى حد كبير من الحزن،، "ينبغي أخذت أفضل بكثير من الرعاية لك في حين يمكن أن يكون!"
في الواقع، وكلنا لدينا 4 زوجات في حياتنا
ألف-الزوجة الرابعة هي هيئتنا. بغض النظر عن كم من الوقت والجهد ونحن الفخم في جعلها تبدو جيدة، سوف تترك لنا عندما نموت.
باء-لدينا الزوجة الثالثة؟ ممتلكاتهم ومركزها والثروة. عندما نموت، أنها